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Asked on Wednesday, November 26, 2008
I am engaged and just graduated from college in Boston, I have been offered a job in Colorado and really want to take the chance and opportunity to start my adult life somewhere new and fresh. My fiance and I have not decided on a date because we just got back together after taking a cold feet break.
I'm at the point where I want to be with her, but there is no free ride. If we go, WE go together as a married couple since I'll be the only one with a job. How do I explain my terms without hurting her even when the bottom line is I'm going with or without her.
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| Answer posted on November 26, 2008 |
| by rallen |
| You only have one life. Love is something that none of us can do without, and if you find it, you're a damned lucky person. But!! Love happens more than once; it happens in all sorts of places; at inopportune times, and in different zip codes- but it is always there for the taking. If you just graduated from college then I am going to assume that you are a young man, and you have a considerable amount of life ahead of you. If you love this woman and want a future with her, then you should do whatever it takes to make this situation work. But if you cannot; if she will not budge and you cannot give, then it will have to end. The end is always painful but even pain must come to an end. If you want to branch out and she wants to stay in, then it is time to move on. Of course, ask her to come with you; of course, ask her to take the chance. But if she cannot take the chance then neither should you. |
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