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Money Vs Love ??? give time or break up ???
Hi ALL,
I'm desperate for some opinions as I can't make any decisions now.
Me & my girlfriend have been together for 3 years. Our plan was to get married early last year, but I'm not ready financially until now.
We love each other very much and of course have tons of memories both good and bad.
But for the last 3 years, all the business that I'm doing is not getting to a level that can support a family. She felt that I'm dragging time because she's ALWAYS there supporting me on whatever I do but not gaining a lot of profit and probably got tired of being so optimistic all the time with little result.
She felt insecure on our future relationship as she really wants to get married.
We could get married now but we'll be living on a very tight cashflow (until my business gets better of course).
The problem is that she's telling me about her insecurities being with me and afraid if we get married now, she would later regret as we don't know what the future holds. She knows she's being selfish about this issue & requesting some time for her decision on whether or not continue our relationship.
I know she has the right to feel insecure and all but on the other side, I'm thinking that her love for me is not real enough. Simply put money VS love....Money is the winner here. Am I right by looking at the situation this way ???
Should I give her time & wait for her decision or should I be the one to finish this relationship due to her insecurities on my financial situation???
Please help...I'm torn here.... :(
Hi ALL,
I'm desperate for some opinions as I can't make any decisions now.
Me & my girlfriend have been together for 3 years. Our plan was to get married early last year, but I'm not ready financially until now.
We love each other very much and of course have tons of memories both good and bad.
But for the last 3 years, all the business that I'm doing is not getting to a level that can support a family. She felt that I'm dragging time because she's ALWAYS there supporting me on whatever I do but not gaining a lot of profit and probably got tired of being so optimistic all the time with little result.
She felt insecure on our future relationship as she really wants to get married.
We could get married now but we'll be living on a very tight cashflow (until my business gets better of course).
The problem is that she's telling me about her insecurities being with me and afraid if we get married now, she would later regret as we don't know what the future holds. She knows she's being selfish about this issue & requesting some time for her decision on whether or not continue our relationship.
I know she has the right to feel insecure and all but on the other side, I'm thinking that her love for me is not real enough. Simply put money VS love....Money is the winner here. Am I right by looking at the situation this way ???
Should I give her time & wait for her decision or should I be the one to finish this relationship due to her insecurities on my financial situation???
Please help...I'm torn here.... :(
