Asked

May 21 2009

Female

I've been "on a break" for a while now from my ex girlfriend. I've started to date other people & I really like this chick I met a few months back. We're starting to get serious. I don't want to hurt her! But I know as soon as we get back to school I'm going to get back with my ex. Should I just break it off with the new chick?

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Answered

May 22 2009

Your concern about her feelings means you are a good guy, but I hope you have been up front with this new chick about your situation. I'm guessing though that you haven't given her details about your "break" with your ex, and have allowed her to get closer to you than you anticipated...which means, it will be a difficult situation. It's better to just let her know sooner than later if you are sure you will be getting back with your ex. Good luck and hopefully you learn from this experience.

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