Asked

May 22 2009

Female

I love receiving oral sex but hate giving it...will I ever find a guy who will be okay with that?

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Answered

Oct 17 2009

some guys actually get of on been denied oral sex and having to give it.
I do and my wife loves it.

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Oct 16 2009

I'm currently in a relationship exactly like this except she's told me that it's the only way she can reach orgasm, so it's almost a requirement of me. This woman is amazing and aside from this I love everything about her, but I'm afraid that for me (and MOST men) if it's just the way things are with her, then it's a deal breaker.

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Sep 30 2009

The real question is "why dont you like giving it?" If you dont like giving it then how can you expect to be given it?" Think about this. What can you or he do to make you more interested in it? Would it be better for you if he bathed beforehand? If he trimmed/shaved in that area? If he agreed not to ejaculate in your mouth? Personally i dont think it fair to expect to get it if you wont give it, so think about the things you can do to make it more desirable for you to do it. If you're with an undesrstanding guy he'll help you with that.

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Aug 18 2009

Not "all" men choose to give oral and expect something in return, the same applies to women. If a man truly loves giving, then he doesn't need to receive anything in return to be satisfied, giving gives him pleasure.

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Jul 30 2009

true enough most men want it no matter what. I found a guy once that told me from the start he loved giving -but not receiving. Having been in relationships before -i thought it was strange. For 2 years -he gave - i received -and all was good. In an argument one day - he said - and you never even touch me! Well i did touch him - but i didn't like oral - he knew this from the beginning......unfortunately that -coupled with other things was the end of our relationship. So i guess - all men want it -

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Jun 24 2009

I don't think so... -.-"

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May 28 2009

NOPE! but act as if you are really bad at it and they won't want you to do it.. but then they won't give it either.. men tend to do it because they think it will get them some... UNLESS you come accross a man that loves doing it.. but most of them don't.. sex is supposed to be about pleasing the other person, especially when you are in love.. So until then.. if it's about selfish pleasure... you might have to do lot of faking until you find that one that doesn't want it.. I think I'm pretty safe in saying... ALL MEN WANT IT! AGAIN unless its bad.. even then some would or might tolerate it..

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May 25 2009

Just a matter of time before you find a guy that doesn't care. Some don't really like it. Personally, receiving oral is just another thing, if I don't get it, no big deal.

I would make sure however, that when your getting comfortable with the thought of sex or conversations about sex with a guy, that you bring that up. Make sure he knows about your dislike for giving oral.

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May 22 2009

Not likely.

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