Asked

Aug 17 2009

Female

I recently started talking to my ex again. We haven't seen each other for months and the last time that we saw each other was with friends and as friends. We didn't really talk much about anything except when I was leaving, he told me that he isn't looking for a relationship. I told him that was fine because I was kind of seeing someone else that he didn't know about anyway. Even now we dont really talk about much... just some texts every other day or so. Anyway, while we were dating, we went to some football games and I kind of want to take him to a game this season since he doesn't go to school there anymore and I came across a deal on the tickets. Would it be a bad idea to ask him? I am just worried that I will be disappointed with what happens. I would like to get back together with him in the future, not now, but sometime. I would rather just hang out as really close friends until I know if I really do want him back. Is this a bad idea?

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Answered

Aug 23 2009

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