Asked

Sep 18 2009

Female

So I've been sort of casually dating this girl for a few months. We don't really hang out much, unless we are hooking up. She's cool and all, but not really the kind of girl I would want to date. She's the only girl I'm physical with, but I flirt and hang out with other girls from school too. Then last weekend my buddy starts making jabs at me about my "girlfriend". Apparently, she changed her status on her MySpace to say she was in a relationship....with ME. How do I tell this girl I don't really reciprocate her feelings, without sounding like a total a**hole??

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Answered

Sep 18 2009

First off, DONT!!! Who Cares What Your Friends Say... Thats What Friends Do And They Mostly Do It Out Of Jealousy... Second, You Have A Girl Commited To You, That Lets You Have Your Space And DO What You Want When You Want... WHAT ARE YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT??? There IS No reason To Hurt Her Feelings if She Is Not Complaining ABout It... i had A Girl Like This And I will tellYou What, After 5 Years, When She Finally Up And Left Because I did What You Are Saying You wanna do, I REGRETTED IT EVERYDAY SINCE... Unless She Makes It An Issue, Why Are You Gonna Hurt Her And Mess With A Good Thing... Only Rule You Need To Follow Is Karma, And By That I Mean If You Do Fool Around With Someone Else, YOU HAVE TO TELL HER BEFORE YOU FOOL AROUND WITH HER AGAIN... She Has A right To Choose If She Wants To Continue On With You After That... Do Not Touch Her Again If You Touched Someone Else Without Telling Her First... Thats Simple Respect... Other then that Why Throw A Wrench In The Machine... Her Calling Herself Commited Does Nothing To you Or Changes What You Do... So Accept Your Friends Are Jealous Because You Have What They Wish They Could, A Girl That Lets You be You... Trust me, You'll regret It In The End If You Push Her Away... Appreciate What You HAve, And Dont Make Issues Out Of Nothing...

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Sep 22 2009

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